Step 1: You say, “We need to talk.”
Yes, just like in that song by The Fray, only different…
Earlier this year, I was checking my email on my way home from work when I saw the words “You’re a Match” in my inbox. I didn’t know the sender, but I knew exactly what the email was about. It was probably because in the back of my mind this was an email I had been anticipating for a few years. To understand where this email came from, we need to take a step back.

